"Using your advice, I rescued this cute
girl from this other guy and now we're dating..."
......I went to a night club with some friends yesterday, the evening was to
celebrate a friend's birthday. I went in, fashionably late of course,
and went straight up to the bar where my friend was receiving presents,
not looking at anyone else the whole way. I greeted her, and gave her
her gift. She opened it, and then I found I was standing next to one of
my great friends from school.
We had a chat and a laugh, and then he had to go and play on stage as
he was a part of the band that was playing there live. When he left I
had a flick around the room with my eyes, and noticed a girl looking at
me. Oooh the butterflies. I held her gaze, and after a little while she
smiled shyly and looked away.
It was one of those "Oh yeah!" moments! She was very hot and
dressed very individually. So I went over there and you will NOT believe
this but one of my girl friends says to me just as I am about to make
conversation with this girl; "Hey, I know someone who fancies you..."
"Really? Another?" I reply grinning, and she tells me about
this girl who noticed me last week at this same nightclub. And all the while
the girl who was looking at me was listening! It was fab - she already knew
I had sparked interest in others.
Then this arrogant guy in a red jacket came over, and started hitting on
her (I seriously could NOT believe my luck), doing the classic wimpy-assed
moves I used to do not so long ago... She looked really annoyed and disgusted
by him, and she looked at me in a "please help me" kind of way.
....Red jacket guy stood a little way away, and when I asked her who he was
she said she "didn't know", and I gave him a big smile and a thumbs
up (yeah... you go, sucker...). He smiled back patronizingly and made a gesture
then walked off. She looked so relieved. I made fun of jacket guy and other
wimpy men, and we carried on talking. She told me her name was Terry, after
I commented that I loved her bag and asked her where she got it (pure GOLD
Rod - she opened up so much after that!).
After that it was ridiculously EASY I talked to her about balloons (of all
things...) and Brad and Jennifer's recent break-up, and then I played a
role-play game like you suggested. Then I find out that my friend who is
playing in the live band's girlfriend is best friends with the girl I like
and so the four of us have a chat, it's going great! Terry keeps looking
at me with that longing look in her eyes...
Red jacket guy was watching us the whole time. I gave him a little wave,
then put my arms around Terry. The look on his face - absolutely priceless.
The main thing is I cannot BELIEVE how well all your hints and techniques worked - I
would never ever have been able to build up enough attraction to
kiss a girl within an hour of meeting her before reading your material, and certainly not beaten away other guys!
Anyway, that's the end of the success story. I've got more to tell too!